The Direction
of Words
There are many verses in the Bible that encourage me and
fill my soul with hope. But then there are other verses that scare and
sober me.
Proverbs 18:21 is near the top of that latter list.
"Death and life are in the power of the tongue, and
those who love it will eat its fruits" (ESV).
I like how The Message summarizes it: "Words kill,
words give life; they’re either poison or fruit — you choose."
That verse compels me to wrap duct tape around my mouth.
Why?
Because my words - and your words, too - are never
neutral.
The Bible says that our words are either moving in a life
direction, or they're moving in a death direction. What we say either
builds up or tears down.
There isn't any middle ground.
I don't know about you, but I often speak as if my words
exist in a happy neutrality. It's uncommon for me to think before I
speak, "Is what I'm about to say in this moment going to bring life
or bring death?"
But the Bible says that every word we speak is moving in
one of those two directions. So how should this spiritual reality change
the way we live?
I can see four ways:
1. Think more: Jesus says that we'll give an
account for "every careless word" we speak (Matthew 12:36).
That same Jesus will speak perfectly on our behalf on the day of
judgement, but we still need to take the time to consider the direction
of our words before they roll carelessly off our tongue.
2. Speak less: Proverbs 10:19 says, "When
words are many, transgression is not lacking, but whoever restrains his
lips is prudent." In other words, the more you and I say, the higher
the probability we have of bringing death and tearing down. Sometimes
it's better to say nothing at all.
3. Rest in God: If you're anything like me,
there will be many words that you wish you could take back. But God's
timing is always right. He chooses to reveal these things to us at just
the right moment, and he forgives every careless word we have spoken and
will speak.
4. Forgive others: If we're going to rest in God
for our own careless words, we need to give others the same grace that
we've received. Be patient and forgiving as God reveals to others what he
has revealed to you.
May we take advantage of the grace offered to us and move
our words in the direction of life!
God bless
Paul Tripp
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